Online Activity Monitoring Guide
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Online Activity Monitoring Guide
Age-appropriate monitoring strategies and tool recommendations to balance child safety with privacy as they grow.
Download Online Activity Monitoring Guide
Complete guide with age-specific strategies, tool comparisons, device setup guides, and implementation checklists.
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Age-Based Monitoring
Appropriate supervision levels from direct (5-8) to trust & verify (16-18)
Monitoring Tools
Comparison of Screen Time, Family Link, Bark, Circle, and Qustodio
Device-Specific Tips
Strategies for smartphones, computers, gaming consoles, and tablets
Implementation Steps
Family discussion, tool selection, setup, and routine establishment
Monitoring Principles
- Be transparent about monitoring—explain the why, not just the what
- Prioritize safety over privacy for younger children, then gradually shift
- Evolve monitoring approaches as children demonstrate responsibility
- Build trust by following through on promises about earned independence
Watch for Red Flags
Sudden secrecy, emotional distress after device use, receiving messages at odd hours, or dramatic behavior changes may indicate problems. Increase supervision and have direct conversations when you notice warning signs.
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